I know it has been a while since my last post but I have been doing research and finding out just how wide spread the sort of experience is, my experience, the experience of being totally alienated from your children and having to watch and listen as you see each of your children slowly turn against you, and now think that I am a total W****r, loser and a really bad father, hmm, please ask my partners 3 children who I live with if you want the truth on that.

Anyway ....

Through research and loads of support, thanks Sam, my truly fantastic and wonderful partner, only God knows what strength she has given me in the past 12 months, she has had to support me and put up with the fact that my ex has totally got it in for her, given her total abuse via phone, text, email and now even written letters through the front door, this has been going on every week for the past 13 months, every week.

What do the police and courts do.... yep, not a thing.

To be honest, after yet another 3 visits from the police this week, I kid you not, 3 times this week, I think me and Samantha have met every police officer that works and Bournville Lane police station, which is not to bad for Sam as she likes a man in uniform lol :) . (Only joking, still love you more Samantha!!) Oh not forgetting the odd prayer now and then I have come across some sites that I think will interest you, it is all to do with parental alienation, I will not try to describe it when the experts do a fer better job, if you go to Dr. L.F. Lowenstein site here:

http://www.parental-alienation.info/index.html you will find the whole shocking truth, and just how widespread this alienation is, now I have to fight on but if you want to help please just let people know about this blog or send them the link to either Dr. L.F. Lowenstein site or the following site, which I know is an American site but its a start:

http://www.parental-alienation-awareness.com

If any one, father, mother or grand parents wants to know more, just to get some support or knows of any where alienated parents can get support please post a reply.

I came across a poem off the parental alienation awareness site that really made me feel:

"Mommy, please, it's just not fair Daddy,

don't talk about Mommy when she's not there,

I love you both, don't make me choose,For

if I must, we all will lose,

I know that both my parents care,And in my life,

I want both there,"

Though Mommy and Daddy,

you're apart,

I love you both with all my heart."

I have added to articles to my web site on this, again from the parental alienation awareness site, please give them a read and know that we all have feelings:

http://nlpsupport.com/articles/parental-alienation-syndrome/did-you-know-that-parental-alienation-is-a-form-of-child-abuse

and

http://nlpsupport.com/articles/parental-alienation-syndrome/a-kidnapped-mind/

Alan